This
time last week J & I were in Prague – a wonderful city that I
can't recommend too highly – but a city very much shaped by its
history.
The
ghetto where the Jewish community was confined over many years no
longer stands but the Jewish cemetery remains.
It's
an extraordinary place, where 12,000 grave stones jostle one another
for position and the burials themselves are some 12 deep, so that
it's estimated that over 100,000 are buried there...in a community as
closely confined in death as in life.
You
see, in Prague as in so many other places, the Jewish community
represented the alien in the midst...the outsider, to be treated with
suspicion, anxiety, even hatred.
We're
not good, on the whole, at dealing with outsiders.
We
are, all of us, more comfortable with familiar situations, familiar
people...and that can make the Christian life a challenge.
We
know the theory – God's love embraces all...but we tend to organise
our lives, even our churches, into zones of like-mindedness.
And
we're not alone.
1st
century Jews, Jesus among them, had had many centuries to establish
themselves as a race apart...God's chosen people...the ultimate
insiders, secure in an identity reinforced by law, faith and
practice. But in our gospel today Jesus encounters someone from the
other side of the tracks – and is challenged and changed by the
encounter.
He
has crossed into Gentile territory, where Jewish law and custom
have
no remit
– and comes up against a
woman driven by that most compelling force, parental love.
She
pushes her way in, intent on claiming the healing she believes her
daughter deserves.
Like
so many others, she throws herself on the mercy of Jesus. Kneeling at
his feet she entreats his help.
And
what happens?
For
reasons that may be obvious, I’ve never tried to tell this story in
a primary school assembly, but if I did, I know what the children’s
answer to that question would be.
"What happens?"
“Jesus
makes the child better”
That’s
what we’d all expect.
Jesus
goes about doing good, healing, rescuing,- surely that’s the
essence of his earthly ministry. Of course Jesus is going to
comfort the mother and heal her child, without further ado.
Except
that he doesn’t.
Not
at first.
First,
we find ourselves thrown off balance, our expectations flouted by
words of such staggering rudeness that they are almost unbearable.
Jesus, JESUS of all people, tells that frantic mother
that she and her child are no better than dogs….and I
don’t think we’re under any illusion that he meant cute and
cuddly pet spaniels.
He
is saying without compunction that as Gentiles, the woman and her
daughter are not fully human, and they’re therefore beyond the
scope of his love, his healing.
“It’s
not right to take the children’s bread and throw it to the dogs”
It’s
extraordinarily hard to hear this. We want to retain our soft focus
image of Jesus, the source of endless compassion…but this abrasive
stranger shakes us.
However,
this woman is made of sterner stuff, and refuses to go away quietly.
Instead,
she responds in kind, picking up Jesus’s words and turning them
back on him without missing a beat.
We
may be dogs, but surely you’re not so mean that you begrudge us
even the left-overs.
She
refuses to take No for an answer…
And
in doing so, she stops Jesus in his tracks.
Against
his own expectations, he is forced into really seeing
her, - another human being, a child of God…and what he sees makes
him change his mind in a radical way.
Hang
on...
Jesus
changes his mind?
Surely
not!
As
God’s Son, Jesus must be perfect…the unmoved mover, no shadow of
turning, right?
Perhaps not! Surely, since Jesus is fully human, he must have lived
and learned. Even Mrs Alexander was prepared to accept that Jesus
went through all the normal stages of physical development – “day
by day like us he grew”
So
too, surely, he learned and grew in relationship…and maybe
sometimes he changed his mind. It seems to me that today's gospel
presents Jesus rethinking the scope of his whole mission, as he
responds to that Gentile woman whose love for her child isas fierce and determined as any Jewish mother's.
His
eyes, his ears, his heart are opened...and another miracle of
scandalous grace occurs.
And
oh, how badly we need that scandalous grace in the Church today.
We
find it so hard to admit we might be wrong.
With God on our side,we
cling to the notion that we don't really need to listen to the voice
of strangers, because we already know the truth.
Really it’s hard not to
sympathise with the Jews, who believe themselves to be the insiders,
on a fast track to Salvation. We don't have to look far in our
churches, or in ourselves, to find traces of that same approach.
Time,
then, for us to be challenged.
This
morning's gospel concludes with a second encounter, as Jesus heals
the deaf man, transforming his life and his world with that great
“Eph phathah” “BE OPENED”.
That,
surely, is the call to us this morning.
We
need to pray that God will open OUR ears, eyes, minds, hearts..
We
need to allow ourselves to be challenged and changed, as we
encounter a God who listens and changes his mind, whose unlimited
love seems almost to surprise himself.
We
need to be open to the realisation that with God there are no
boundaries...that there is grace enough to include us all
We
need our eyes opened so we may SEE our brothers and sisters as God
does, as beloved children, neither better nor worse, more or less
beloved than we ourselves.
...
our ears opened to hear their voices – and our tongues loosed so
that we can be their advocates, speaking for those silenced by
circumstance.
We
need, too, to pray for our Church – that it may become truly
inclusive, a place where God's unconditional love and amazing grace can be encountered by all without hindrance– regardless of race, gender,
orientation...
“BE OPENED”
Because,
you know, there really ARE no limits, so there's no need to see any as outsiders. We all belong and there is enough and to spare for all….
Nobody
need be content with crumbs from under the table.
BE OPENED.
See how, again
and again, God’s reckless mercy sweeps us off our feet, how his love
compels us to come in, so we find that we are all alike included in
a boundless welcome, enfolded in the love that embraces all.
Brilliant stuff, K. Well said!
ReplyDeleteEspecially like the way you linked the two healings.
Interesting, I never thought of it that way but it does make Jesus at one with our humanity. When this reading was read on Sunday I thought of it a different way as I saw Jesus words addressed to the disciples; using the words they were thinking to show them they were wrong. Both interpretations have a message for us.
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