Given
that we're told that most people learn most of their theology through
singing in church, it's just a little worrying how much BAD theology
there is in some of our Christmas carols! Last week I pointed out to
the congregation (here)
at All Saints that, however much you may love “Away in a Manger”,
the assertion that “The
little Lord Jesus, no crying he makes”
is
badly off course when describing
a REAL baby.
Today,
I'm afraid it's “Once in Royal David's City” that is running into
trouble.
“And
through all his wondrous childhood he would honour and obey, love
and watch the lowly maiden in whose gentle arms he lay”.
Err-hmm
Not
really
Not
if you listen to the story Luke told us this morning.
Today,
as we celebrate the feast of the Holy Family, we encounter a very
REAL family indeed.....a family where a son, not yet out of his
teens, decides he is quite grown up enough to go his own way.
A
family where the adults are sometimes preoccupied, and forget for a
few moments that they have
the most precious child of
all time in
their care
A
family where things go wrong and tempers are frayed...
Where
have you BEEN Jesus? Your Father and I were frantic”
A
family where
even God's own Son can sound rather a know-it-all
as he say
“Did
you not know I must be in my Father's house”
My
Father's house.....I wonder how those words sounded to Joseph,
especially, after those 12 years of nurturing Jesus, making a home
for him and his mother...I'd guess they hurt rather – a brusque
reminder that the events of the first Christmas were not an
amazing one off, that could be safely confined to the family memoirs,
relegated to an annual retelling around Jesus's birthday celebrations
That
child só dear and gentle was growing up and growing into his full
identity as God's son and that would involve pain, both predicted and
unguessed at, for his earthly parents. Later
on, they will lose him in Jerusalem once again for 3 days – and
find him again in a way that they could never have expected...for
this is no ordinary child – no ordinary family.
Mary
and Joseph had to come to terms with who Jesus was, letting
go of whom they might have wanted
him to be...and that is often a
challenge
for us too. We
so
ofen try
our best to mould him to our requirements...just think of all those
pictures of white Anglo-Saxon
Christs who surely bear virtually no resemblance to the 1st
Century Jew …
They
are simply the outward evidence for something we try to do on other
levels too: if we tend to see the world through a conservative lens,
then that is the Jesus we focus on too. If our approach is more
liberal – we try to make Jesus a champion for OUR cause. We
struggle, for the most part, with letting him BE Jesus in our lives –
and in our church.
You
see, Jesus is always uncompromisingly HIMSELF...Not meek and mild,
not malleable – for if he were, he would be powerless to save us
from ourselves. He is REAL – and his earthly family remains a real
family too, a family made up of those who are connected to him not
through blood and birth but through the power of the Holy Spirit.
That's
us.
The
Church.
His
family – complete with imperfections, frayed tempers and failures
to attend to his whereabouts.
And,
like Mary and Joseph that Passover 2000 years ago, we often find
ourselves losing sight of Jesus – and looking for him in the wrong
places.
We
want him to tag along with us,
to live life on our
terms,
to bless us with his presence without demanding that we change
direction at all but HE
WONT DO THAT.
He is always ahead
of us, calling us onwards, asking
more of us than we believe we can give – though, wonderfully, we
find that he also enables us to exceed our own limited expectations
if we set about following him with heart, mind and soul.
Like
Hannah, who had to give back to God the precious child that God
himself had given her, we cannot hold on to Jesus, keep him walking
beside us on some kind of spiritual baby reins.
We
can't demand that he falls in with our plans and agenda...He needs to
be about his Father's business and he invites us to join him.
Today
may perhaps be a good time to take stock of how well we are doing in
that ...as
individuals, and as churches.
The
prospect of a new year always encourages that sort of reflection –
but it's specially pertinent for us as we contemplate the new
patterns of ministry which we will be part of in the future.
We
might use the epistle as a kind of template to measure our success –
or otherwise...for if we are truly about our Father's business, truly
the Church,
then our lives will
bear the hall-marks of which Paul writes to those Christians in
Colossae. The
DNA of the Church, God's family here on earth, should reflect the DNA
of our Father – who is wholly love.
“Above
all, clothe yourselves with love”
writes Paul “which
binds all things together in perfect harmony”.
As
we look forward to another year we know that we
will fall short of that perfect harmony again and again...that we
will fail to allow Christ's peaceful rule its proper place in our
hearts and lives...that we will impede our Father's business by
habits of mind and patterns of behaviour....Like
most other families, we will struggle with relationships and hurt one
another again and again. The Church of England as an institution has
managed that particularly successfully in the course of the past year
– but those same failures of trust and generosity, that same
insistence on having things the way WE want them have at times been
visible in our smaller church families too. We, the Church, are a
dysfunctional family...a family in constant need of redemption and
restoration, if it is to be true to itself once again.
So
let's pray for one another as we go our separate ways – that the
grace of Jesus Christ may fill us more and more, and the family
likeness grow ever stronger.
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In the name of the Father...